Somehow or rather was reminded of this drama. Went to youtube the OST. GOSH. SO. SAD. Saw the mv and instantly my heart sank.
ANYWAY. CHOIR TODAY WAS LIKE ENJOYABLE FOR THE FIRST TIME SINCE FOREVER. HAHAHA. Not really. Like ever since seniors stepped down, it became DULL ADN MUMDANE. But somehow I found mr foong very funny today. Or maybe I was just in a good mood. HAHAHA WHATEVER. HEHEHEHE.
Shall sleep soon.
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Monday, January 30, 2012
THESPACEBAR.
11:11
Hey. I just realised that. Many little minor trivial small tiny teeny weeny insy bitsy things actually do bother me so much more than BIG things actually does. Am I fragile? Or am I just sensetive? I think it takes both to make up ME. It bothers me so much that it keeps playing in my head. Although I keep telling myself that it'll be over in awhile, things will be fine then. But I'm living the the present and I can't skip time. Gurgh. I'm so drained from all these thinking my brain does subconsciously when I'm unwilling. SHALLSLEEPTHEMOFF.
#feelingveryirritatedtodaysoi'mtypingwithoutspacestorushthroughmywords
Hey. I just realised that. Many little minor trivial small tiny teeny weeny insy bitsy things actually do bother me so much more than BIG things actually does. Am I fragile? Or am I just sensetive? I think it takes both to make up ME. It bothers me so much that it keeps playing in my head. Although I keep telling myself that it'll be over in awhile, things will be fine then. But I'm living the the present and I can't skip time. Gurgh. I'm so drained from all these thinking my brain does subconsciously when I'm unwilling. SHALLSLEEPTHEMOFF.
#feelingveryirritatedtodaysoi'mtypingwithoutspacestorushthroughmywords
Just let it fade away slowly.
GOSH. LOOK AT THE TIME. 10:23. GOOGLE APP WAS GIVING ME HELLTHELOADOFTROUBLE. Wasted about 30 minutes trying to figure out how to re-sync the mail app to google app. Urgh. Irritated I spent so much time on it I lost my mood to do BIO. ANDMDMSOHISGONNAHATEMEFORLIFEAGAIN.
URGH.. Seriously...
Anyway, was feeling depressed as usual after the amath test. Who doesn't feel depressed after any amath test?? HA.
Whatever. Letthewholeworldhatemeandletmejustrotanddie.
kthnxbai.
P.S: TOTALLY DISLIKE THE NEW GOOGLE POLICY OKAY. Please do something about it, google.
URGH.. Seriously...
Anyway, was feeling depressed as usual after the amath test. Who doesn't feel depressed after any amath test?? HA.
Whatever. Letthewholeworldhatemeandletmejustrotanddie.
kthnxbai.
P.S: TOTALLY DISLIKE THE NEW GOOGLE POLICY OKAY. Please do something about it, google.
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Fueled up!
Reattempted my whole amath eoy paper and made sure I understood every single thing in there. I shoot all my queries to brother and poor thing he was explaining it to me :P HAHAHA but oh well. Then I completed bzbd and the paper 2 for chinese. Except I'm left with 4 compre questions and a gonghan email to write :P HEH HEH. But I'm like all tired already although I'm high from the fact that I'VE DONE SO MUCH TODAY.
But still, it's wrong to do work on Sunday :( I'm trying very hard not to do work already... :/
Anyway, plans for tomorrow: revise econs in the bus and morning for mastery test at period 3. Then doing chum homework during recess and revise amath again during the lunch break if you even bother to call that one since its only 15 mins. Dohhhh...
Okay. Worned out. Bye
But still, it's wrong to do work on Sunday :( I'm trying very hard not to do work already... :/
Anyway, plans for tomorrow: revise econs in the bus and morning for mastery test at period 3. Then doing chum homework during recess and revise amath again during the lunch break if you even bother to call that one since its only 15 mins. Dohhhh...
Okay. Worned out. Bye
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Gosh its 29 January already. Anyone realised? I mean, in two days time it'll be 1 Feb. ARE YOU KIDDING ME. One month into 2012 so soon? I have not even settled down into my study mode! LOLOL. If I even recalling having one.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
-Groans-
Drama ruined my life. Literally. Never felt so messed up before. When will I ever learn.
다시배고파요.
Drama ruined my life. Literally. Never felt so messed up before. When will I ever learn.
다시배고파요.
Again.
Heh, felt bad for not going YF today when kenny have been telling me to go since forever. But brother didn't go anyway. Heh heh heh. I'll try to make it to YF okay... It's just that I'm not comfortable with people encourgaing me to go to YF. I'll go when the time is right this year.
Boy oh boy, my Saturday is gonna get hellalot worser. 9 in the morning: choir, then chinese tuition at 12, then probably chem would be at 3. Wa sian. ITS ALL BACK TO BACK. Straight after choir, need to rush to chinese, after chinese, rush again to chem. AND YOU KNOW WHAT. FROM NOW ON, I'LL HAVE TO LIVE ON BREAD EVERY SATURDAY JUST BECAUSE I WON'T HAVE ANYTIME FOR A PROPER LUNCH. And what to blame on? Choir. Seriously, I don't mean to whine and all about how I hate going choir, but I know its unreasonable also for me to complain about choir on saturdays cause concert is coming but... CAN'T THEY LET OFF THE SEC 4ssssss. D: WHAT. IN. THE. WORLD.
I messed up my weekend cause I've got too much uncompleted work. I need to do hw with KAIYING. HEH.
kthnxbai.
Boy oh boy, my Saturday is gonna get hellalot worser. 9 in the morning: choir, then chinese tuition at 12, then probably chem would be at 3. Wa sian. ITS ALL BACK TO BACK. Straight after choir, need to rush to chinese, after chinese, rush again to chem. AND YOU KNOW WHAT. FROM NOW ON, I'LL HAVE TO LIVE ON BREAD EVERY SATURDAY JUST BECAUSE I WON'T HAVE ANYTIME FOR A PROPER LUNCH. And what to blame on? Choir. Seriously, I don't mean to whine and all about how I hate going choir, but I know its unreasonable also for me to complain about choir on saturdays cause concert is coming but... CAN'T THEY LET OFF THE SEC 4ssssss. D: WHAT. IN. THE. WORLD.
I messed up my weekend cause I've got too much uncompleted work. I need to do hw with KAIYING. HEH.
kthnxbai.
I'm actually rather thankful that school started on a Wednesday instead of a Monday although everyone's complaining about the short CNY holiday. School days somehow seem to pass slower than holidays. And Wednesdays means it's closer to the weekend. And I love Sundays. Well just a tiny confession, I love Sunday because of skip beat. And it's something I've tried to cover cause I thought it wasn't a good thing to like Sunday about when it should have been the Sabbath.
Friday, January 27, 2012
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HAI. :) Was being high and crazy with yuanshan in the morning before all our lessons. HAHAH no wonder I was tired subsequently through the day. And we were bao-ing liao about almost everybody we knew and I think her brain almost exploded cause she was in a state of infomation-overload. Hehehe. The lessons in stall for us today were all so heavy D:
Was folding triangles with christine and ziyan say we no life. TSKKKK. It's fun in a way la haiya.
Goshhhhh somehow I start to feel the stress already you know. Normally my whole weekday is filled with staybacks so my whole weekday-offs are gone. Then on saturday morning, I'll have chinese tuition and followed by chem in the afternoon. Now choir wants to have saturday morning practices. CHAM. No slot to reschedule for either one of the tuitions can. ._. What is this la. And I can't forsake either one of my tuitions cause I really need Chinese. And chem. SIAN. Means the last resort is to arrange my tuitions back to back. MY BRAIN WILL BURN. Pfft.
Anyway, determined to complete most of my homework today. :D Then I'll mug for amaths tomorrow. Leave my sunday available, and revise econs, hopefully.
Love my chem lessons with kaiying :D not implying that I love chem lessons, but I like kaiying being around. I drew the best portrait ever today. :) But it's faceless :P
Alright, shall leave it here.
Was folding triangles with christine and ziyan say we no life. TSKKKK. It's fun in a way la haiya.
Goshhhhh somehow I start to feel the stress already you know. Normally my whole weekday is filled with staybacks so my whole weekday-offs are gone. Then on saturday morning, I'll have chinese tuition and followed by chem in the afternoon. Now choir wants to have saturday morning practices. CHAM. No slot to reschedule for either one of the tuitions can. ._. What is this la. And I can't forsake either one of my tuitions cause I really need Chinese. And chem. SIAN. Means the last resort is to arrange my tuitions back to back. MY BRAIN WILL BURN. Pfft.
Anyway, determined to complete most of my homework today. :D Then I'll mug for amaths tomorrow. Leave my sunday available, and revise econs, hopefully.
Love my chem lessons with kaiying :D not implying that I love chem lessons, but I like kaiying being around. I drew the best portrait ever today. :) But it's faceless :P
Alright, shall leave it here.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
All scattered everywhere. Bits and pieces of nothing.
HEY PEOPLE!! PAGE 26 OF 366; HUIEN FINALLY CUT HER NAILS! Because her mother bought he a new nail cutter so she has cut her nails and she can type very comfortably on her keyboard! -likeastory-
Anyway. Hi. :)
Well on the bus just now, I've been set thinking about how I somehow like the way people mistake me for being a dancer/netballer/musician in band and then when they realise I'm in choir, they can imagine that scene too. They don't guess that I'm a chorister on first guess
Not a lot of people think I'm n band, but apparently there's a handful who thinks that I look like I play the flute. Yay! HAHAH cause if I had joined band, I would most probably have been qualified to play the flute too :)
Then we come to netball. Isaac and his friends keep thinking I'm from netball cause me and Hannah are like 24/7 sticking together and hence they say I look like the sporty/athlete kind. Well I used to love perspiring and running during games, but in recent year, I've became VERY, very lazy. But yay! That means I look like I'm fit and toned and healthy! Which in actual fact, I my stamina is like at the bottom pit, I'm quite flabby if you noticed (YES I'VE GOT EXCESS FATS.) and I'm definitely not healthy cause I HATE EXERCISING.
And then lastly, not to forget, dancer. Actually 80% of the people I know actually think I'm a dancer. Somehow I feel really good hearing that. Cause that's my roots! Can't forget my primary school days where I used to be one of the most flexible and now, my sit-and-reach can barely hit 40cm. GOSH. -facepalm-
Next up though. I think I'm a very clingy person. Probably cause of my insecurities..? When I find a friend that I'm comfortable with, I tend to cling onto that person..? Well that's what I feel for the person even if my friend doesn't feel the way so. That's why I don't really like to sms/call them first. I don't want them to think that I'm an irritating despo ._. LOLOL. I feel so sorry for my friends x.x
Whatever. Anyway, ......... awwww, I lost my chain of thoughts already :( Haiya.
Okay fine anyway was talking to mummy slightly after dinner and she was like "you just work hard this year and get into the course you want in poly. Then from then on you'll be quite relaxed already." And I'm like yeahhhhh... I don't understand whyyyyy so many people have this stereotypical square-box mindset that if you go to poly you're not as smart. JC is the best way. Like honestly... They literally look down on the path of poly.
Hey, after poly, you are like qualified to get a job in the course that you studied/specialised in okay. Your A level certs can't get you a better job than a person who has a diploma. And if you're really that smart, you can advance from poly to uni. And apparently I heard that when you further your course in uni from poly, they allow you to skip the first year and straight away go to the second year. So it'll be the same what. And the person from poly has his diploma cert to lie back on to get a better job still, as compared to an A level cert.
And thennnnnn, I realised that a lot of successful people I know did not have the 'best' education. Most of them didn't go uni or whatever prestigious uni you ever know. But still they've surpass theire peers wayyyyy much. I guess it's just the mindset and will..? The paths you take doesn't really matter as long as you get there. And by that I don't imply that I'm encouraging through the bad way. Tsk, I sound like I'm preaching. I mean, I just don't really like the way a lot of people stereotyping that JC is always the best and if you don't go JC almost half of your life is condemned. Like seriously... ._.
Someone told me before, in order to be successful, "不能单靠读书，要学会读人。" #chim. Forgot who though.
But anyhow, still, success is a word that can only be defined by a person himself. So really, it varies.
January is ending very soon. And I've yet to settle down. And the homework have not started piling in. I'm quite worried actually. Cause the longer they don't start giving me homework, the longer in suspense I'll be in. But either way, I don't like both feeling of the suspense and being burried in homework. Gosh, I have not been faithfully doing personal devotion this whole month... Urghhhhh. So discouraging.
I actually secretly wish to get a perfect score for my L1R5. I'll work on it. But only if the Lord willing.
I've cut my nails!! ^^
说出来会被嘲笑的梦想，才有实现的价值。
Anyway. Hi. :)
Well on the bus just now, I've been set thinking about how I somehow like the way people mistake me for being a dancer/netballer/musician in band and then when they realise I'm in choir, they can imagine that scene too. They don't guess that I'm a chorister on first guess
Not a lot of people think I'm n band, but apparently there's a handful who thinks that I look like I play the flute. Yay! HAHAH cause if I had joined band, I would most probably have been qualified to play the flute too :)
Then we come to netball. Isaac and his friends keep thinking I'm from netball cause me and Hannah are like 24/7 sticking together and hence they say I look like the sporty/athlete kind. Well I used to love perspiring and running during games, but in recent year, I've became VERY, very lazy. But yay! That means I look like I'm fit and toned and healthy! Which in actual fact, I my stamina is like at the bottom pit, I'm quite flabby if you noticed (YES I'VE GOT EXCESS FATS.) and I'm definitely not healthy cause I HATE EXERCISING.
And then lastly, not to forget, dancer. Actually 80% of the people I know actually think I'm a dancer. Somehow I feel really good hearing that. Cause that's my roots! Can't forget my primary school days where I used to be one of the most flexible and now, my sit-and-reach can barely hit 40cm. GOSH. -facepalm-
Next up though. I think I'm a very clingy person. Probably cause of my insecurities..? When I find a friend that I'm comfortable with, I tend to cling onto that person..? Well that's what I feel for the person even if my friend doesn't feel the way so. That's why I don't really like to sms/call them first. I don't want them to think that I'm an irritating despo ._. LOLOL. I feel so sorry for my friends x.x
Whatever. Anyway, ......... awwww, I lost my chain of thoughts already :( Haiya.
Okay fine anyway was talking to mummy slightly after dinner and she was like "you just work hard this year and get into the course you want in poly. Then from then on you'll be quite relaxed already." And I'm like yeahhhhh... I don't understand whyyyyy so many people have this stereotypical square-box mindset that if you go to poly you're not as smart. JC is the best way. Like honestly... They literally look down on the path of poly.
Hey, after poly, you are like qualified to get a job in the course that you studied/specialised in okay. Your A level certs can't get you a better job than a person who has a diploma. And if you're really that smart, you can advance from poly to uni. And apparently I heard that when you further your course in uni from poly, they allow you to skip the first year and straight away go to the second year. So it'll be the same what. And the person from poly has his diploma cert to lie back on to get a better job still, as compared to an A level cert.
And thennnnnn, I realised that a lot of successful people I know did not have the 'best' education. Most of them didn't go uni or whatever prestigious uni you ever know. But still they've surpass theire peers wayyyyy much. I guess it's just the mindset and will..? The paths you take doesn't really matter as long as you get there. And by that I don't imply that I'm encouraging through the bad way. Tsk, I sound like I'm preaching. I mean, I just don't really like the way a lot of people stereotyping that JC is always the best and if you don't go JC almost half of your life is condemned. Like seriously... ._.
Someone told me before, in order to be successful, "不能单靠读书，要学会读人。" #chim. Forgot who though.
But anyhow, still, success is a word that can only be defined by a person himself. So really, it varies.
January is ending very soon. And I've yet to settle down. And the homework have not started piling in. I'm quite worried actually. Cause the longer they don't start giving me homework, the longer in suspense I'll be in. But either way, I don't like both feeling of the suspense and being burried in homework. Gosh, I have not been faithfully doing personal devotion this whole month... Urghhhhh. So discouraging.
I actually secretly wish to get a perfect score for my L1R5. I'll work on it. But only if the Lord willing.
I've cut my nails!! ^^
说出来会被嘲笑的梦想，才有实现的价值。
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Nameless, among the multitude. All but nothing.
用妳給我的翅膀飛 我懂這不是傷悲
再高都不會累 我們都說好了
用妳給我的翅膀飛 我感覺己夠安慰
烏雲也不再多 我們也不為誰掉眼淚
This song suddenly came into my mind.
I realised that this was in his first ever album. Awesome. I was actually listening to the MV at first and I realised that JJ's voice hasn't really changed much since his debut. Probably he just sounds more sentimental since he has gone through so much already. About 8 years right? Ya about there. Yep, and he sounds more matured now. He's vibrato (actually I'm not sure if you call that that LOL) is still about the same, just that it sounds deeper now, and nicer.
Wasstalking looking through Jayi's blog just now (got influenced by Cheryl ahem.) and I think she's really cool. Really, heartfelt sincerely, she's cool. Probably the coolest girl of her kind that I know. And somehow it got me thinking, it'll be cool if I changed the url of my blog and don't tell anyone of my blog url and just put it on my twitter bio page. Then let the meticulous people find out for themselves. But then I figured out a good question... "What url should I change it to?" And then I couldn't think of a better url than http://sweetened-bitterness.blogspot.com/. So I gave up the idea.
To be honest, when I thought of this, I just modified from the urls sweetened-vintage and sweetened-revenge. Kay, yes yes, a very lame thing to do. But pardon me, I was p5 or p6 when I created this URL. So there has to be this childishness right? But then in recent years, I've been thinking of this url and I guess, hey, it sounds nice. Sweet is the direct opposite of bitter. And why sweetened bitterness? Maybe because after through the many stupid obstacles me overcome, here comes the sweetness of accomplishment. That's where your bitterness gets sweetened. Do I make sense? Cause I think I do.
#nowplaying 華麗的獨秀 - Super Junior-M.
Today was not a good day. But it wasn't that bad like suckish. I just didn't enjoy today. Was thinking I could pour everything out to channy today but apparently the ulcer in his stomach burst so he's like dying now and we can't talk. Okay. Sian. Never mind, he's health matters. Get well soon dearie! I'll be praying for you okay :)
LOLOL. Have been listening to Jay Chou's songs for the past few ten minutes..? He's songs are nice... But somehow making me depressed with this sinking feeling ._. Ohmygosh. Brother, stop introducing more of his songs that are unknown to me, to me...
Was planning to pour out what I've been thinking about the whole day here, but my nails are in the wayyyyy ._. So sian. #pekcek.
Whatever. Shall attempt.
So actually I was feeling a little depressed in my morning. Like DUHHH, feeling monday blues on a wednesday..? Who doesn't feel depressed when you have to go back to school. Then the depressed feeling to deeper as the day went on. Somehow I managed to suppress it and then got myself to be myself in school. But I feel so out of place during SDL. Urgh. Like I wanted to participate in the conversation, but I've got nothing to talk about. And I was like being quiet like an emo freak. Checked my phone and twitter regularly. You know, sometimes, just sometimes, when I've really got nothing to say and I feel awkward/out-of-place, I'll just hide it with my phone and use it to cover up my 'insecurities' if you would even call it one.
And after all these years spending in commonwealth, I've came to a realisation that since sec 3, I get depressed easily. Sometimes for an unexpainable reason that the sinking feeling just hits me, sometimes of trivial matters that pricks me subconsciously. Then at the end of the day the prick becomes my wound because it managed to bother me so much. But I guess it's okay cause I get over things very easily. At least faster than many of the friends I know. And maybe that's the good thing about it. However all these are only possible by God's grace and sustanance. That should probably be the difference between me and most of my school friends. I guess. Whenever I'm faced with a setback, I'm always comforted by the fact that it's okay, God will see me through this. Instead of emoing in a corner and swallow in self-pitying, thinking why haven't I done better. And I think I'm thankful for that.
再高都不會累 我們都說好了
用妳給我的翅膀飛 我感覺己夠安慰
烏雲也不再多 我們也不為誰掉眼淚
This song suddenly came into my mind.
I realised that this was in his first ever album. Awesome. I was actually listening to the MV at first and I realised that JJ's voice hasn't really changed much since his debut. Probably he just sounds more sentimental since he has gone through so much already. About 8 years right? Ya about there. Yep, and he sounds more matured now. He's vibrato (actually I'm not sure if you call that that LOL) is still about the same, just that it sounds deeper now, and nicer.
Was
To be honest, when I thought of this, I just modified from the urls sweetened-vintage and sweetened-revenge. Kay, yes yes, a very lame thing to do. But pardon me, I was p5 or p6 when I created this URL. So there has to be this childishness right? But then in recent years, I've been thinking of this url and I guess, hey, it sounds nice. Sweet is the direct opposite of bitter. And why sweetened bitterness? Maybe because after through the many stupid obstacles me overcome, here comes the sweetness of accomplishment. That's where your bitterness gets sweetened. Do I make sense? Cause I think I do.
#nowplaying 華麗的獨秀 - Super Junior-M.
Today was not a good day. But it wasn't that bad like suckish. I just didn't enjoy today. Was thinking I could pour everything out to channy today but apparently the ulcer in his stomach burst so he's like dying now and we can't talk. Okay. Sian. Never mind, he's health matters. Get well soon dearie! I'll be praying for you okay :)
LOLOL. Have been listening to Jay Chou's songs for the past few ten minutes..? He's songs are nice... But somehow making me depressed with this sinking feeling ._. Ohmygosh. Brother, stop introducing more of his songs that are unknown to me, to me...
Was planning to pour out what I've been thinking about the whole day here, but my nails are in the wayyyyy ._. So sian. #pekcek.
Whatever. Shall attempt.
So actually I was feeling a little depressed in my morning. Like DUHHH, feeling monday blues on a wednesday..? Who doesn't feel depressed when you have to go back to school. Then the depressed feeling to deeper as the day went on. Somehow I managed to suppress it and then got myself to be myself in school. But I feel so out of place during SDL. Urgh. Like I wanted to participate in the conversation, but I've got nothing to talk about. And I was like being quiet like an emo freak. Checked my phone and twitter regularly. You know, sometimes, just sometimes, when I've really got nothing to say and I feel awkward/out-of-place, I'll just hide it with my phone and use it to cover up my 'insecurities' if you would even call it one.
And after all these years spending in commonwealth, I've came to a realisation that since sec 3, I get depressed easily. Sometimes for an unexpainable reason that the sinking feeling just hits me, sometimes of trivial matters that pricks me subconsciously. Then at the end of the day the prick becomes my wound because it managed to bother me so much. But I guess it's okay cause I get over things very easily. At least faster than many of the friends I know. And maybe that's the good thing about it. However all these are only possible by God's grace and sustanance. That should probably be the difference between me and most of my school friends. I guess. Whenever I'm faced with a setback, I'm always comforted by the fact that it's okay, God will see me through this. Instead of emoing in a corner and swallow in self-pitying, thinking why haven't I done better. And I think I'm thankful for that.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Jebal eosso. gomawo.
Think I injured my left waist somehow during the 2nd day of camp while running around in sentosa. And genius me forgot about the pain there and wore heels yesterday for cny till I realised the pain there. Hahaha. Now it hurts even more. Gosh, is there even people more genius than me that I know off?
Spent the whole day pigging on cny goodies. It was quite boring today cause cny caused all the shows to stop airing AND DAMN SKIP BEAT AIRS ON SUNDAY AND MOST PROGRAMS STOPS AIRING TEMPORARY TO MAKE WAY FOR SENSELESS CNY PROGRAMS WHICH NINE OUT OF TEN ARENT EVEN APPEALING. At least the cast of skip beat made it up with a new year's eve special program with yu bai and it was funny in some parts. Kay. My nails really getting in the way of my typing. Irritating. But I still can't find the nail cutter... Urgh... You can't expect me to bite them right..? It was hard to get rid of that bad habit can. Some more I seldom play the guitar and I don't think it can be my motivation to stop it again if I get hooked on biting my nails again.
MUMMYYYYYYYY please buy a new nail cutter :( HAHAHA I DON'T CALL IT NAIL CLIPPER LIKE MOST OF YOU ALL DO ;D
May be this is the longest I've ever kept cause I've never really realised my past long nails getting in my way when typing on the keyboard. Sighs.
Double Sigh. School starts tomorrow. Actually I don't dread school 100% this time round. I dread it 90% only. 10% cause I miss my friends. 90% cause... IT'S SCHOOL. DUH. Itsn't it a big good reason enough already? :) Yeah and I heard the next public holiday away is 2 months away. MY THIRD SIGH. -SIGH- I've heard a lot from the teachers. They say that the real hell will start from cny onwards. GOSH NO. I'M NOT MENTALLY PREPARED YET. Can already imagining myself dying. Can already feel the stress. The 25 questions Mrs Philip gave us, questions from 12 onwards I'm like WHAT IN THE WORLD? How do they even ask us to find something that seems non-exsistant and can't seem be to calculated?? Gosh. so much catching up to do.
Waiting for yuanshan to send me the pix............................................
kthnxbye.
Spent the whole day pigging on cny goodies. It was quite boring today cause cny caused all the shows to stop airing AND DAMN SKIP BEAT AIRS ON SUNDAY AND MOST PROGRAMS STOPS AIRING TEMPORARY TO MAKE WAY FOR SENSELESS CNY PROGRAMS WHICH NINE OUT OF TEN ARENT EVEN APPEALING. At least the cast of skip beat made it up with a new year's eve special program with yu bai and it was funny in some parts. Kay. My nails really getting in the way of my typing. Irritating. But I still can't find the nail cutter... Urgh... You can't expect me to bite them right..? It was hard to get rid of that bad habit can. Some more I seldom play the guitar and I don't think it can be my motivation to stop it again if I get hooked on biting my nails again.
MUMMYYYYYYYY please buy a new nail cutter :( HAHAHA I DON'T CALL IT NAIL CLIPPER LIKE MOST OF YOU ALL DO ;D
May be this is the longest I've ever kept cause I've never really realised my past long nails getting in my way when typing on the keyboard. Sighs.
Double Sigh. School starts tomorrow. Actually I don't dread school 100% this time round. I dread it 90% only. 10% cause I miss my friends. 90% cause... IT'S SCHOOL. DUH. Itsn't it a big good reason enough already? :) Yeah and I heard the next public holiday away is 2 months away. MY THIRD SIGH. -SIGH- I've heard a lot from the teachers. They say that the real hell will start from cny onwards. GOSH NO. I'M NOT MENTALLY PREPARED YET. Can already imagining myself dying. Can already feel the stress. The 25 questions Mrs Philip gave us, questions from 12 onwards I'm like WHAT IN THE WORLD? How do they even ask us to find something that seems non-exsistant and can't seem be to calculated?? Gosh. so much catching up to do.
Waiting for yuanshan to send me the pix............................................
kthnxbye.
Monday, January 23, 2012
水龙
HELLO :) Actually there's something that puzzles me. Why is this the year of water dragon? Cannot fire or earth meh? Heh. Okay anyway, went to bai nian today. The most common heard stuffs from relatives forever:
1. Waaa! So pretty already hor!
2. Aiyo! So tall already leh!
3. This year how old already huh?
And recently they've been staying this this year:
4. Waaa, your hair grow so long leh!
And then my mum have been saying this for the whole day:
5. Your nail very long leh, can you please go cut them??
And it's true cause it's long till I can't really type comfortably cause my nails are in the way. Aiya I'll cut them after cny okay. Need to find the nail cutter... Hmmmm... :P
Alright alright. Ate a lot this CNY. HUR HUR HUR. I can see my fats from my stomach bulging out when I sit down :( And my legs seems meatier. Meh.
Have been in a camwhore mode for awhile :B But think I've grown fatter man :(
It feels good talking to you again after quite a while :)
1. Waaa! So pretty already hor!
2. Aiyo! So tall already leh!
3. This year how old already huh?
And recently they've been staying this this year:
4. Waaa, your hair grow so long leh!
And then my mum have been saying this for the whole day:
5. Your nail very long leh, can you please go cut them??
And it's true cause it's long till I can't really type comfortably cause my nails are in the way. Aiya I'll cut them after cny okay. Need to find the nail cutter... Hmmmm... :P
Alright alright. Ate a lot this CNY. HUR HUR HUR. I can see my fats from my stomach bulging out when I sit down :( And my legs seems meatier. Meh.
Have been in a camwhore mode for awhile :B But think I've grown fatter man :(
It feels good talking to you again after quite a while :)
Sunday, January 22, 2012
That's probably how a conversation continue.
Had a longgggggggg talk with BFFL over the phone. Probably the longest yet ever. 3h or so. Heh. We kept digressing! From talking about how level camp was to the 5km run-walk to how bad my stamina is but I still managed to get a gold to everything you can imagine. And then we'll forest our initial point. HAHAHAHA.
Oh. I just realized that it's already 22nd January, not 21st. OH CRAP. HAVEN'T WROTE OUT JOEL'S BIRTHDAY CARD YETTTTT. HEH. Hehehehe! Hope I'll get to go sgbf tomorrow with brother, if not I won't get to pass him his card.
If today's 22, that makes tomorrow 23. Which is cny! Which reminds me I still have untouched homework and unstudied bio mastery test to study for. -sighs- still have econs and chum. Goshhhh. I'll probably win the world's number one beat procrastinator or something?? ._. Yeah. Maybe. Who knows.
Apparently I was talking to BFFL about a person and was looking through the person's blog. After all the talking and reading, I came to a conclusion that the person's really lonely and somehow the person is short of love or something?
I'm sorry I failed to see that you're really lonely and it seems you dot have anyone to confide into. Well we may not be talking to each other anymore and well we were actually probably never very close before, but I just wanna tell you that hey YOU, you know you can confide in me whenever you want? Or like when you're feeling lonely and you have no one to talk to. I'll be here ready to listen to your grievances. Anytime. Alright?
And yes, that applies to everyone who regards me as a trustworthy friend.
And yes yes, before I go off, HAVE A BLESSED BIRTHDAY JOEL C.! :D Though we don't talk much but you're a really awesome person and although it was quite a month ago but it was fun splashing water at each other. I pray you continue to grow in the Lord and do continue to serve Him faithfully! I'll tryyyyy attend ypf camp this year :P heheheh have a blast! And I hope I'll complete your card and hand it to you later today :P
Right.
Goodnight :)
Oh. I just realized that it's already 22nd January, not 21st. OH CRAP. HAVEN'T WROTE OUT JOEL'S BIRTHDAY CARD YETTTTT. HEH. Hehehehe! Hope I'll get to go sgbf tomorrow with brother, if not I won't get to pass him his card.
If today's 22, that makes tomorrow 23. Which is cny! Which reminds me I still have untouched homework and unstudied bio mastery test to study for. -sighs- still have econs and chum. Goshhhh. I'll probably win the world's number one beat procrastinator or something?? ._. Yeah. Maybe. Who knows.
Apparently I was talking to BFFL about a person and was looking through the person's blog. After all the talking and reading, I came to a conclusion that the person's really lonely and somehow the person is short of love or something?
I'm sorry I failed to see that you're really lonely and it seems you dot have anyone to confide into. Well we may not be talking to each other anymore and well we were actually probably never very close before, but I just wanna tell you that hey YOU, you know you can confide in me whenever you want? Or like when you're feeling lonely and you have no one to talk to. I'll be here ready to listen to your grievances. Anytime. Alright?
And yes, that applies to everyone who regards me as a trustworthy friend.
And yes yes, before I go off, HAVE A BLESSED BIRTHDAY JOEL C.! :D Though we don't talk much but you're a really awesome person and although it was quite a month ago but it was fun splashing water at each other. I pray you continue to grow in the Lord and do continue to serve Him faithfully! I'll tryyyyy attend ypf camp this year :P heheheh have a blast! And I hope I'll complete your card and hand it to you later today :P
Right.
Goodnight :)
Friday, January 20, 2012
Time makes enemies love each other and the best of friends turn against each other.
Hi. Last day of camp. Although the activities were honestly lame, but I don't deny that it bonded us as a class once again and I had fun with friends.
So today was dragon boating and 5km PT day. Dragon boating was very fun except the part where mdm soh kept splashing water right in my face cause she wasn't in sync with the team and she didn't row vertically in the water but diagonally almost horizontally and so water kept splashing and splashing IN MY FACE. It was so bad Diana had some of the share too.
Then we had the 5km PT thing. Walked the whole thing like a boss. Walked the final 2km or so with yuanshan and mughi.
Went to Clementi mall with Diana to k and talk talk talk. Told her some secrets I didn't even tell xy papa heh :P and showed her our 40 stores thingy. Turned out BFFL went to check it out on 5th jan! Wrote on that piece of paper today's date and put it back :).
Right that's all I guess.
SO CUTE!!
So today was dragon boating and 5km PT day. Dragon boating was very fun except the part where mdm soh kept splashing water right in my face cause she wasn't in sync with the team and she didn't row vertically in the water but diagonally almost horizontally and so water kept splashing and splashing IN MY FACE. It was so bad Diana had some of the share too.
Then we had the 5km PT thing. Walked the whole thing like a boss. Walked the final 2km or so with yuanshan and mughi.
Went to Clementi mall with Diana to k and talk talk talk. Told her some secrets I didn't even tell xy papa heh :P and showed her our 40 stores thingy. Turned out BFFL went to check it out on 5th jan! Wrote on that piece of paper today's date and put it back :).
Right that's all I guess.
SO CUTE!!
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Saeng-il chugga habnida
One short post before I go sleep.
Today was eventful. Ran around sentosa in sneakers. Hahaha good job HuiEn you burnt your feet. But it was fine. We're doing dragon boating tomorrow. Leonard-dy say before when we do dragon boating he said I no need paddle. I sit on the dragon boat slack also no difference cause I'm too light xD hahaha. HuiEn is strong enough! She can paddle!!
Okay so happy 18th. Though I think you've probably forgotten about me cause we've not been talking for the past whole year, but still you've made a difference in my life. So I make the effort to wish you. Have a blessed one.
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Felt ditched by T today. I'm not saying to anyone cause I think I'm just overly-sensitive and I should get over it on my own. I was unreasonable angry when no one could take the blame.
Today was eventful. Ran around sentosa in sneakers. Hahaha good job HuiEn you burnt your feet. But it was fine. We're doing dragon boating tomorrow. Leonard-dy say before when we do dragon boating he said I no need paddle. I sit on the dragon boat slack also no difference cause I'm too light xD hahaha. HuiEn is strong enough! She can paddle!!
Okay so happy 18th. Though I think you've probably forgotten about me cause we've not been talking for the past whole year, but still you've made a difference in my life. So I make the effort to wish you. Have a blessed one.
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Felt ditched by T today. I'm not saying to anyone cause I think I'm just overly-sensitive and I should get over it on my own. I was unreasonable angry when no one could take the blame.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Page 17 of 366
Heh, I'll use that as a title whenever I don't feel like thinking of a title alrigt? :)
Excited for tomorow cause NO SCHOOL (or lessons if you insist). But not excited for tomorrow cause there's no Adam Khoo workshop to look forward to for the whole camp so I don't look forward to the camp.
Did I mention I dislike the sun since sec 2? Yes I just did. Right I don't like perspiring and smelling like smelly even after I've cooled down cause there's still this perspiration smell. Gosh.
Waking up at 745 tomorrow! Yay me ^^
Kay bye.
Excited for tomorow cause NO SCHOOL (or lessons if you insist). But not excited for tomorrow cause there's no Adam Khoo workshop to look forward to for the whole camp so I don't look forward to the camp.
Did I mention I dislike the sun since sec 2? Yes I just did. Right I don't like perspiring and smelling like smelly even after I've cooled down cause there's still this perspiration smell. Gosh.
Waking up at 745 tomorrow! Yay me ^^
Kay bye.
Monday, January 16, 2012
Annabel Lee.
Hello you people out there complaining about how it's the third week of school and are already feeling all worn out. Left two more chapters till Anna and the French Kiss! Its a really... Sweet book I guess..? HAHAHA :P
Thank you yuanshan, katherine, xinyi, cheryl for the really really belated BUT sweet present! You guys really put a smile on my face! :) I was like smiling to myself like an idiot when I finally opened the present and my brother thought I was mad some more ._.
I'm tired. Shall sleep early today :)
Thank you yuanshan, katherine, xinyi, cheryl for the really really belated BUT sweet present! You guys really put a smile on my face! :) I was like smiling to myself like an idiot when I finally opened the present and my brother thought I was mad some more ._.
I'm tired. Shall sleep early today :)
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Monday, January 9, 2012
Let's start from zero all over again.
Ya ya, everyone has been harping on the O Levels thingy. Got back my results, B3. In the beginning I was like super disappointed. I mean, I've been taking HCL for 6 years and they suddenly want me to drop? A bit bu she de. Then I was on the bus, homing and I took a deep thought; should I insist on HCL or just drop it and get a better score for CL? Reached home and thought my parents would be like diappointed, but nooo. They were... er... normal..? LOL. Okay probably they thought their daughter couldn't do that well anyway ._. ah but whatever. Then they asked me so how? Want drop or continue. Like it was totally up to me to choose! I mean like, for other students, as far as all my friends are concerned, most of the structure of their education is actually 'controlled' by their parents. In that sense, whatever they wanna do they gotta discuss with their parents. But for me, my parents were waiting for me to decide on what to do.
And in the end, I decided and was convinced that okay, I shall drop HCL. I'll go retake my CL and make sure I get an A1 this May. If I cling on to HCL, then I'll have to live with the blemish of a B3 in Chinese and I may not be able to pass my HCL and get my minus 2. Furthermore, it's more likely for me to enter poly, so the minus 2 from HCL won't actually be of use. The other reason why I don't wanna drop HCL is because if half way through I feel like entering jc, the minus 2 from HCL will be of help. And then again, seeing a lot of my seniors in school today recieveing their results, seeing them getting such good scores even with HCL makes me think, hey! I won't die even if I don't take HCL! And then when I was back at home, mummy told me the horrors of how she think I won't survive the strainous accadamic based syllabus in jc and I was like hmmmm... Ya, maybe it's wise for me to not go jc at all.
Yes, honestly, I do feel sad okay. Like I'll be lying if I said I wasn't. I mean, look at twitter and facebook, so many sec 4 HCL talking about how well they did, A1s and 2s blah blah blah as if they wanted to rub it in my face like that. But trust me, I positive that I'm the most positive out of all the candidates who got B3 for their Os. Why? Because I know that God's will is best for me and what he wants me to do, where he wants me to be is the best place to be in. Well yeah I didn't work hard for this exam, just reading through a lot like few days before it, but if it is his will for me to drop it, I guess I will. It's not like the end of the world or something that I have to drop HCL, just give me time to get over this, I'll be fine in a few days :)
A little confession; I have not been really do anything this whole week although I've been telling everyone I was busy with all the overdue holiday homework and tuitions. Yeah, I tried doing them, but I always ended up procrastinating and then ultimately I decided since I couldn't get myself to do homework, I'll just do something else instead. I watched 공부의 신; Master of Studies.
I was left with 2 more episodes which I've finished up today. Spent about 3-4 days watching it. At first, I watched it cause of this handsome guy:
And then as the drama slowly progessed, I realised another handsome guy:
And I also realised Ji Yeon is a really good actor. Okay, but back on a serious note, slowly, it started to motivate me. The reason why my results are like crap cause I'm not doing anything. Right, I did attempt to study for biology last year, but it was kind of done half-heartedly. I guess I thought by "studying" for it, I count at least account for "not doing anything about my studies" if I did badly in it. But the fact was, I believe I didn't give my best. In between while touching bio, I was actually on youtube wondering everywhere.
This drama was not those kind of extreme sad sad sad to the max cause it didn't really make me cry except for one small part of it, but it was a more of a touching moment, quite different from other dramas that I've cried about like misunderstandings or over some grievances a particually character is suffering from in the drama. The drama makes you think about how the characters started outby working so hard although they thought/know that they won't be able to make it but they still wanted to struggle through it. They wanted to fight before they even give up and run away. I must say they've really been an encouragement to me.
I really love the cast a lot! Great cast! :D
Let's start the race! :)
And in the end, I decided and was convinced that okay, I shall drop HCL. I'll go retake my CL and make sure I get an A1 this May. If I cling on to HCL, then I'll have to live with the blemish of a B3 in Chinese and I may not be able to pass my HCL and get my minus 2. Furthermore, it's more likely for me to enter poly, so the minus 2 from HCL won't actually be of use. The other reason why I don't wanna drop HCL is because if half way through I feel like entering jc, the minus 2 from HCL will be of help. And then again, seeing a lot of my seniors in school today recieveing their results, seeing them getting such good scores even with HCL makes me think, hey! I won't die even if I don't take HCL! And then when I was back at home, mummy told me the horrors of how she think I won't survive the strainous accadamic based syllabus in jc and I was like hmmmm... Ya, maybe it's wise for me to not go jc at all.
Yes, honestly, I do feel sad okay. Like I'll be lying if I said I wasn't. I mean, look at twitter and facebook, so many sec 4 HCL talking about how well they did, A1s and 2s blah blah blah as if they wanted to rub it in my face like that. But trust me, I positive that I'm the most positive out of all the candidates who got B3 for their Os. Why? Because I know that God's will is best for me and what he wants me to do, where he wants me to be is the best place to be in. Well yeah I didn't work hard for this exam, just reading through a lot like few days before it, but if it is his will for me to drop it, I guess I will. It's not like the end of the world or something that I have to drop HCL, just give me time to get over this, I'll be fine in a few days :)
A little confession; I have not been really do anything this whole week although I've been telling everyone I was busy with all the overdue holiday homework and tuitions. Yeah, I tried doing them, but I always ended up procrastinating and then ultimately I decided since I couldn't get myself to do homework, I'll just do something else instead. I watched 공부의 신; Master of Studies.
I was left with 2 more episodes which I've finished up today. Spent about 3-4 days watching it. At first, I watched it cause of this handsome guy:
And I also realised Ji Yeon is a really good actor. Okay, but back on a serious note, slowly, it started to motivate me. The reason why my results are like crap cause I'm not doing anything. Right, I did attempt to study for biology last year, but it was kind of done half-heartedly. I guess I thought by "studying" for it, I count at least account for "not doing anything about my studies" if I did badly in it. But the fact was, I believe I didn't give my best. In between while touching bio, I was actually on youtube wondering everywhere.
This drama was not those kind of extreme sad sad sad to the max cause it didn't really make me cry except for one small part of it, but it was a more of a touching moment, quite different from other dramas that I've cried about like misunderstandings or over some grievances a particually character is suffering from in the drama. The drama makes you think about how the characters started outby working so hard although they thought/know that they won't be able to make it but they still wanted to struggle through it. They wanted to fight before they even give up and run away. I must say they've really been an encouragement to me.
I really love the cast a lot! Great cast! :D
Let's start the race! :)
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Sometimes, it gets me wondering...
Oh well, enough of those depressing thoughts. Though I was kinda disappointed this year because things that I've expected didn't really turn out the way I thought it would be, but hey! It's okay! Life still goes on. Live with that.
Even though things didn't go the way I thought it would be, but still, even out of all these, those little surprises here and there really make my day. As I've said, I've gotten a lot closer to my friends during the december teens camp last year. Well because the unexpectedly, there were WAYYYY more guys who turned up for the camp than girls, so naturally, most of the friends I've gotten closer to were guys. And these guys are reallyyyyy sweet! I put my guarantee to it, sweeter than most girl friends I would ever have. One glance at them and you'll think that they're the "cool cool" people and not the kind of guys who would actually take time to write letters. BUT YES THEY DO! And not only those sweet handwritten letters! Knowing that I can't stand ugly handwritting, they even made the special effort to write in their best handwritings! I mean, okay... It may not be comparable to what the girls can do, but hey! I think in terms of effort and thought, it's already way better than what other girls do for me! Awww, thank you so much guys ^^ A less than three for you all.
Okay, and waddup with all the guys?? I can't forget deary Hannah! Love her card too ^^ Yes it's belated but its the thought that counts okay! She knows I loveeeeee her art! So for every card she gives me, be it christmas or birthday, she'll always make sure mine's 100% DIY-ed by her! SO. SWEET. Of course must give her a less than three too! <3
Indeed, it's all those little things that matters! Feels good thinking about all these despite all the depressing things that ALWAYS make me so shitty. Alright, I'm feeling alllll better now! Shall off the computer jiguem! Bye! :)
Even though things didn't go the way I thought it would be, but still, even out of all these, those little surprises here and there really make my day. As I've said, I've gotten a lot closer to my friends during the december teens camp last year. Well because the unexpectedly, there were WAYYYY more guys who turned up for the camp than girls, so naturally, most of the friends I've gotten closer to were guys. And these guys are reallyyyyy sweet! I put my guarantee to it, sweeter than most girl friends I would ever have. One glance at them and you'll think that they're the "cool cool" people and not the kind of guys who would actually take time to write letters. BUT YES THEY DO! And not only those sweet handwritten letters! Knowing that I can't stand ugly handwritting, they even made the special effort to write in their best handwritings! I mean, okay... It may not be comparable to what the girls can do, but hey! I think in terms of effort and thought, it's already way better than what other girls do for me! Awww, thank you so much guys ^^ A less than three for you all.
Okay, and waddup with all the guys?? I can't forget deary Hannah! Love her card too ^^ Yes it's belated but its the thought that counts okay! She knows I loveeeeee her art! So for every card she gives me, be it christmas or birthday, she'll always make sure mine's 100% DIY-ed by her! SO. SWEET. Of course must give her a less than three too! <3
Indeed, it's all those little things that matters! Feels good thinking about all these despite all the depressing things that ALWAYS make me so shitty. Alright, I'm feeling alllll better now! Shall off the computer jiguem! Bye! :)
Saturday, January 7, 2012
One week into 2012
"When you're here slacking, someone out there is working their ass off."
Yes I know I'm a sec 4 this year, but it has not hit me hard enough that it's the last and final year of my secondary school life. It's quite sad actually. Cause I guess primary school was a rather plain schooling experience while in CSS, things were all way different. Oh right. That reminds me, I need to settle down into my chiong mode and stay that way till the end of Nov. well, at least the end of my Os.
Dear dad, I need my study table in my room if not I'll forever use the excuse of saying my previous room is not conducive for any production at all.
Hate it when mum cuts the electricity for the modem suddenly. Makes me irritated 1000000x even if I'm in a good mood.
Kthnxbai
Yes I know I'm a sec 4 this year, but it has not hit me hard enough that it's the last and final year of my secondary school life. It's quite sad actually. Cause I guess primary school was a rather plain schooling experience while in CSS, things were all way different. Oh right. That reminds me, I need to settle down into my chiong mode and stay that way till the end of Nov. well, at least the end of my Os.
Dear dad, I need my study table in my room if not I'll forever use the excuse of saying my previous room is not conducive for any production at all.
Hate it when mum cuts the electricity for the modem suddenly. Makes me irritated 1000000x even if I'm in a good mood.
Kthnxbai
Friday, January 6, 2012
“生命是個華麗的袍，爬滿了陶子。”
追求完美是人们永恒的目标，有很多人为追求完美，而放弃了很多不应该放弃的东西，浪费了很多不应该浪费的时间，但到头来还是不完美。
有这样一些实事，应该还不算陌生。考上了一所不知名的大学，或不理想的专业，宁愿再花费一年的宝贵时光，也要求得一个完美的结局；若干年前由于缺乏经验或者紧张造成在公开场合出错，于是一直为这个“不完美”而耿耿于怀；不知道什么时候起，人们形成了一个无形的定式，不管什么东西，包裹恋人，“第一个才是最完美的”。
实际上生活在世上的人们，除了精神病患者和刚刚从痛苦中挣扎出来的人，现实生活对任何人来说都是不完美的，完美只是一种追求。因其存在不完美，人们才有动力，才能促使人们思变；因为不完美，你才会有改变、创造和进步的冲动，才能体味到改变和创造给你带来的幸福和快乐。
现实之所以不完美，是由于人们的欲望没有尽头、永无止境，人与人之间有很大的差距，每个人的需求又千差万别，并且谁也没有权利和能力要求别人、乃至社会按照自己的预定目标走。人生一味的要求完美，必然造成对自己苛求，对他人不宽容。自古至今，追求完美的人不计其数，但上下几千年没有一个最终成为完美的圣人。
我们追求完美，虽然达不到目标，但我们决不能放弃，决不能有厌世颓废的“犬儒主义”的心态，也不能把一切寄托于“田园牧歌式”的乌托邦之中。现实生活中我们承认不完美，实际上是摆正了心态，把自己真正回归到了一个正视现实、承认现实的健康心境，有向往才有动力，有追求人生才有滋味，我们要戴着放大镜看待生活，不要戴着有色眼镜鄙视生活。要始终保持一个乐观向上的心理，在追求完美中寻找快乐，在不够完美中寻找差距，砥砺奋进。
人生之所以从懂事那天起就开始奋斗，就是因为我们生活的过程中存在着很多不完美的地方，就是因为我们的人生中存在很多坎坷，我们奋斗的过程就是弥补我们的不完美。人的一生没有完美，办必须付出毕生去追求，去奋斗，只要我们毕生努力去追求了，那就是完美。世间没有任何事情是十全十美的，完美无缺只是一种追求，真正的完美是相对的也是短暂的，它不可能是长久存在，就像一个企业，创业时大家齐心合力努力奋斗，使企业一天天发展，真正到了完美的顶峰，任何一个企业家绝不可能使企业始终保持在这个完美的顶峰，到达顶峰就意味着该走下坡路了，这就是事物发展的规律。一个家庭也是一样，不完美时夫妻团结努力创业，追求完美，一旦基本完美，就会出现挥霍享乐，不思进取，有的家庭就该出现破裂，不是离婚就是家庭出现败家子，最后又回到当初的一穷二白，又从新开始奋斗。这就是人，这就使社会。
造物主也是这样，一开始就将人间万物残存缺憾，使人们在不完美中追求完美，使世间万物在矛盾中生存，使社会在相互作用中不断前进，使时代在不断创新中更迭，使人类不断追求中完善发展。所以我们可以追求完美，但不一定能达到完美，也不需要绝对的完美，一生当中只要我们追求了，我们自己感到值了，也就算完美了。
我“我对生命常常感到矛盾：我是个完美主义者，但却会对上帝的赐福感到感恩、知足。人人常说我聪明能干，但有时我会愚蠢，我会无能。在不完美的生活中，我却能够欣赏在生活里的点点滴滴，生活上的艺术。生命是个华丽的袍，爬满了陶子。生命看起来虽然是美好的，但它却总有些小小又无影的事物使带给我们反感。这，就是我对生命的热爱但无奈。”
有这样一些实事，应该还不算陌生。考上了一所不知名的大学，或不理想的专业，宁愿再花费一年的宝贵时光，也要求得一个完美的结局；若干年前由于缺乏经验或者紧张造成在公开场合出错，于是一直为这个“不完美”而耿耿于怀；不知道什么时候起，人们形成了一个无形的定式，不管什么东西，包裹恋人，“第一个才是最完美的”。
实际上生活在世上的人们，除了精神病患者和刚刚从痛苦中挣扎出来的人，现实生活对任何人来说都是不完美的，完美只是一种追求。因其存在不完美，人们才有动力，才能促使人们思变；因为不完美，你才会有改变、创造和进步的冲动，才能体味到改变和创造给你带来的幸福和快乐。
现实之所以不完美，是由于人们的欲望没有尽头、永无止境，人与人之间有很大的差距，每个人的需求又千差万别，并且谁也没有权利和能力要求别人、乃至社会按照自己的预定目标走。人生一味的要求完美，必然造成对自己苛求，对他人不宽容。自古至今，追求完美的人不计其数，但上下几千年没有一个最终成为完美的圣人。
我们追求完美，虽然达不到目标，但我们决不能放弃，决不能有厌世颓废的“犬儒主义”的心态，也不能把一切寄托于“田园牧歌式”的乌托邦之中。现实生活中我们承认不完美，实际上是摆正了心态，把自己真正回归到了一个正视现实、承认现实的健康心境，有向往才有动力，有追求人生才有滋味，我们要戴着放大镜看待生活，不要戴着有色眼镜鄙视生活。要始终保持一个乐观向上的心理，在追求完美中寻找快乐，在不够完美中寻找差距，砥砺奋进。
人生之所以从懂事那天起就开始奋斗，就是因为我们生活的过程中存在着很多不完美的地方，就是因为我们的人生中存在很多坎坷，我们奋斗的过程就是弥补我们的不完美。人的一生没有完美，办必须付出毕生去追求，去奋斗，只要我们毕生努力去追求了，那就是完美。世间没有任何事情是十全十美的，完美无缺只是一种追求，真正的完美是相对的也是短暂的，它不可能是长久存在，就像一个企业，创业时大家齐心合力努力奋斗，使企业一天天发展，真正到了完美的顶峰，任何一个企业家绝不可能使企业始终保持在这个完美的顶峰，到达顶峰就意味着该走下坡路了，这就是事物发展的规律。一个家庭也是一样，不完美时夫妻团结努力创业，追求完美，一旦基本完美，就会出现挥霍享乐，不思进取，有的家庭就该出现破裂，不是离婚就是家庭出现败家子，最后又回到当初的一穷二白，又从新开始奋斗。这就是人，这就使社会。
造物主也是这样，一开始就将人间万物残存缺憾，使人们在不完美中追求完美，使世间万物在矛盾中生存，使社会在相互作用中不断前进，使时代在不断创新中更迭，使人类不断追求中完善发展。所以我们可以追求完美，但不一定能达到完美，也不需要绝对的完美，一生当中只要我们追求了，我们自己感到值了，也就算完美了。
我“我对生命常常感到矛盾：我是个完美主义者，但却会对上帝的赐福感到感恩、知足。人人常说我聪明能干，但有时我会愚蠢，我会无能。在不完美的生活中，我却能够欣赏在生活里的点点滴滴，生活上的艺术。生命是个华丽的袍，爬满了陶子。生命看起来虽然是美好的，但它却总有些小小又无影的事物使带给我们反感。这，就是我对生命的热爱但无奈。”
Thursday, January 5, 2012
It'll all be better some day.
I realized I tend to be super depressed in the first quarter of the year. Exceptionally depressed and frequently depressed. Can't be helped. :( I see a lot of my so called friends claiming that we're super good friends and all but in the end, always leaving me out in conversations and outings. Post all the photos on Facebook and let everyone see. Yeah. It hurts a lot. But recently I don't know if I'm numb to the feeling already or not, but it doesn't affect me as much as before already. Maybe I'm used to it already, or maybe... Hey, I'm actually quite fine already with you guys out of my inner circle.
It's page 5 of 366 today. Third day of school and I see everyone complaining on twitter about how much they dread school and want the holidays back, about how school barely started and the teachers starts to irritate them. I guess I'm no where different in feelings but hey, school only gets tougher as the year proceeds and our work load gets heavier as the o level draws near. So I'm trying to comfort and convince myself that this is the slackest period of the year before my exams and that I need to really savor it before alls gone in February or March onwards. Goshhhh can't wait for cca step down. One of the partial reasons why I dislike going to cca is that I'm sick and tired of staying back in school till late hours just for cca.
Lessons pass rather quickly today but I noticed a trend is that the feeling of school has ended keep dwelling in me in the 2nd last period. Strangely enough to make the day in school seem longer by a bit more. But it was still the same as before, 3 periods before recess, 3 periods after recess. Maybe it's just the "dreading school" syndrome.
Something to cheer me up.
It's page 5 of 366 today. Third day of school and I see everyone complaining on twitter about how much they dread school and want the holidays back, about how school barely started and the teachers starts to irritate them. I guess I'm no where different in feelings but hey, school only gets tougher as the year proceeds and our work load gets heavier as the o level draws near. So I'm trying to comfort and convince myself that this is the slackest period of the year before my exams and that I need to really savor it before alls gone in February or March onwards. Goshhhh can't wait for cca step down. One of the partial reasons why I dislike going to cca is that I'm sick and tired of staying back in school till late hours just for cca.
Lessons pass rather quickly today but I noticed a trend is that the feeling of school has ended keep dwelling in me in the 2nd last period. Strangely enough to make the day in school seem longer by a bit more. But it was still the same as before, 3 periods before recess, 3 periods after recess. Maybe it's just the "dreading school" syndrome.
Something to cheer me up.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Before the day ends.
Milt says he can get me a VIP tic to SS4 but I'm not sure if I can go cause to start of with. I'm very sure going to concerts, money was never the problem. My parents just don't want me to go. And furthermore, it's my o levels this year. Confirm chop don't let me go. -MAJOR SIGHS-
Today was boring.
Had a good chat with BFFLNO. 2 HAHAHA I FEEL SO BAD FOR NUMBERING MY BFFLS CAUSE BFFLS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE LIKE SOME ONE AND ONLY THING BUT I END UP HAVING QUITE A LOT :P Oh well, I mean, I really love all my BFFs and BFFLs alright :)
2 BFFs and 2 BFFLs :D
Kay I'm gonna sleep now. Bye. :)
-edit- I just realized I have not posted this entry LOL. It was yesterday's post :)
Today was boring.
Had a good chat with BFFLNO. 2 HAHAHA I FEEL SO BAD FOR NUMBERING MY BFFLS CAUSE BFFLS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE LIKE SOME ONE AND ONLY THING BUT I END UP HAVING QUITE A LOT :P Oh well, I mean, I really love all my BFFs and BFFLs alright :)
2 BFFs and 2 BFFLs :D
Kay I'm gonna sleep now. Bye. :)
-edit- I just realized I have not posted this entry LOL. It was yesterday's post :)
Page 4 of 366
Hey a lot of 'cool' people think its overrated so they say it's lame. But I think it's really cool ^^ HAHAHAHA! Okay, shall do a really short post before I go to bed and the day ends. Basically I managed to survive a day in school. But actually it's because hell have not started yet. It's still quite back-to-school. So yeah. But still, assignments are flooding in little by little.
Told mummy about the SS4 thingy and she says she'll consider!! ^^ Cause she thinks if I go I can't concentrate on my studies or something. LOL. Okay at least there's this hope there. And I'm not so depressed now. Right. Probably that's all for now :)
Bye.
Told mummy about the SS4 thingy and she says she'll consider!! ^^ Cause she thinks if I go I can't concentrate on my studies or something. LOL. Okay at least there's this hope there. And I'm not so depressed now. Right. Probably that's all for now :)
Bye.
Monday, January 2, 2012
Sunday, January 1, 2012
HELLO 2012.
Could hear the neighbours counting down to today so loudly.
I'm officially sick. I'm always sick on my birthday due to my every December schedule. Which causes insufficient rest. And then guess it made my immune system down. So I got the flu. And a tiny weeny bit of sore throat.
Well it's my birthday again and I'm fifteen already! Too young for O Levels still in my opinion :(
It's okay.
This year is gonna be busy with stuffs like the nativity play going on in church and O Levels in school. Yeah, I'll go with trust God, because I know He'll help me pull through this year :)
I'm officially sick. I'm always sick on my birthday due to my every December schedule. Which causes insufficient rest. And then guess it made my immune system down. So I got the flu. And a tiny weeny bit of sore throat.
Well it's my birthday again and I'm fifteen already! Too young for O Levels still in my opinion :(
It's okay.
This year is gonna be busy with stuffs like the nativity play going on in church and O Levels in school. Yeah, I'll go with trust God, because I know He'll help me pull through this year :)
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